 The Day After: Isn't that the name of a TV show portraying life after a nuclear holocaust?
Well, it's finally time to put this campaign behind us and get behind the winner. We've watched the debate, put up with the negativity, listened to the name-calling, seen the flyers, read the analyses, tired of the sniping, and endured the arguing. Now it's time to celebrate the bewildering nature of our local brand of American democracy and have some drinks (either to sing and dance to, or to cry over).
As I'm writing this, I don't know who will be the victor in today's primary. That said, I do think it is extremely important that we as a community get behind whoever it is, and let him or her do what he or she has been elected to do -- lead us into, through, and beyond the challenges ahead.
And, this being my own personal blog, you may have guessed already-- I have some advice. Yea, I know, it's unsolicited, presumptuous and free, and worth about what it cost . . . but that's the fun of having a blog; I can just throw it out there anyway -- even if nobody wants to read it.
So, Dear Mayor-elect ________, I offer the following 10 things to consider now that you've actually won the election:
1. Reach out early and often. We have a lot of caring, talented people here in Ypsilanti. Many would be delighted to help out any way they can. Reach out especially to those you disagree with, and carefully consider what they have to say. Don't assume they are uninformed or that you know better than they do, even if it may be true. If you do know better, be sure this is a conclusion you've reached, not an assumption you've made.
2. Listen more, talk less, above all: hear. People want their leaders to listen to them and hear what they have to say. When provided this opportunity, most understand that it's your job to make difficult, complex decisions. They will accept the ones they disagree with so long as they're assured you listened, thoroughly evaluated, and arrived at a principled conclusion.
3. Ask the hard questions. The decisions you make will be important. When considering what to do, don't be satisfied merely with what others provide you. Investigate on your own. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Be aware that some decisions made now may affect our community long after we're all gone. If you can't find answers to the hard questions, postpone action until you have.
4. Bring the community in. Though it's tempting to hand-pick experts and community leaders to serve on committees and panels, consider having others in our community pick representatives from a wider cross-section of the community. Go to local unions, our business community, our religious community, our school district, etc. and ask them to appoint representatives. You'll get a more representative and diverse group, lending legitimacy to your work and conclusions.
5. Dig deep, and err on the side of thoroughness. People will respect analyses that go the extra mile, but will hold a perceived lack of diligence against you.
6. Understand that you're now a symbol -- and you've got a target on your back. People will from time to time be angry at you for good reasons, for bad reasons, for rational reasons, for irrational reasons, and for no reason at all. Respond to their anger by inviting them into the process, reacting calmly and professionally, all with a smile on your face and with words of kindness and inclusion. Take even the most irrational of criticism seriously -- there's probably a nugget of truth in there somewhere.
7. Don't assume your personal opinons are representative of those you serve. The only way to find out what the community wants is to ask. You don't have the luxury of representing only those who agree with you. You must represent everybody, which means sometimes telling friends and supporters that you disagree with their conclusions and going against the grain if you think it's the right way to go.
8. Public service is a privilege. Demonstrate your thanks for the opportunity to lead your community in all that you do.
9. Don't be afraid to admit you were wrong, and feel free to apologize. We are all human, and we all make mistakes. People can be very understanding and forgiving if you honestly and forthrightly fess up to your mis-steps, and apologize, particularly if they feel you are willing to do what you can to make things right again.
10. Be a visionary. When facing the challenges ahead, keep your eye on the objectives you want to achieve. If you focus on cuts, all you will get is cuts. If you keep your focus on your vision of the future, you will make very different, forward-thinking decisions. Stay true to your vision.
Whoever you may be, I am at your service. If I can be of help, call upon me. I'd like to do whatever I can to help you help our community meet and overcome the challenges ahead, even if it means merely keeping my big, fat mouth shut from here on out. ;)
Oh, and congratulations :) |